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Fuck Yeah, Sex Positivity

Fuck Yeah, Sex Positivity is a blog devoted to sex positive politics, sex education, and questioning and deconstructing what we think we know about sex, and what society tells us is appropriate, correct, or proper regarding sex and sexuality, as well as everything else.

Topics covered include but are not limited to: Sexuality, sexual health, contraception and birth control, STD and STI awareness and prevention, BDSM and kink, body image and body positivity, healthy relationships, polyamory and other non-traditional relationships, gender roles, LGBTQA+ and queer politics, and many, many, more.

This is a safe space, regardless of gender, sex, sexual or romantic orientation, sexual preference, race, ethnicity, origin, class, age, ability level, body type, species identity, or any other identifier. Intolerance will not be accepted.

Sidebar image: "We Have A Variety" by Michael Fan

This blog probably should be considered NSFW. However, NSFW images will be tagged with #nsfw for purposes of blacklisting to make dashboard scrolling at work easier. Probably not a good idea to check this page at work, though, unless your boss is down with occasional dildos 'n stuff. If so, hey, your boss is cool.

The rebloggable version, by request!

[Text: Anonymous asked: “Why are you posting asexual stuff on a SEX POSITIVE blog”

fuckyeah-sexpositivity answered: “Because, dear anon, sex positivity does not mean erasing or shaming the experiences of those who are asexual. 

Actually, I think we need to have this conversation. 

I actually am of the mindset we need more perspectives of asexuality within the sex positive movement. Because there’s an all too common mantra within our movement that goes, “Sex is beautiful and natural and everyone wants to have sex so it’s nothing to be ashamed of!” 

And I agree, sex is nothing to be ashamed of. But there’s one little detail there: not everyone wants sex or gets pleasure from it. They’re roughly 1% of the population. And with 7 billion people on the planet, 1% equals 70,000,000. Seventy million people is a lot of experiences to erase. 

So, roughly 70,000,000 people on this planet don’t want sex. Or they want sex in certain contexts. Or they kind of sometimes want sex but not often. Or they have sex to satisfy a partner, but don’t get much out of it for themselves. Or they have a sex drive, just… not towards other people. Or they can’t stand the thought of sex. 

And that’s okay too. 

Sex positivity for me is accepting that whether you have sex a lot, or you never have sex, whether you have a million kinks or you can’t stand sex outside the missionary position, whether you are gay, straight, bisexual, pansexual, omnisexual, sapiosexual, autosexual, objectumsexual, or asexual, the way you look at sex and attraction is valid and normal, as long as it’s not hurting anyone. 

So that is why I am posting asexual content on a sex positivity blog. And that is why I will continue to do so.”]